Love and meditation
We can not love another if we do not love ourselves, knowing it would be like looking for a surrogate consciously or unconsciously that we need a patch.
We can not be in the company of another if we can not spend as ourselves; external support would be like trying consciously or unconsciously knowing that we can not stand alone.
is why meditation, training to be in solitude and silence, is the best preparation for love - love is not meant as an attempt to find a support or a surrogate, but as a quest for independence and maturity, the 'only state where you can donate or exchange at par. A
all adolescents would need to learn to meditate rather than jump to the search for love. But it's never too late.
If we are neurotic, if not we have a good relationship with others, try another what we are missing, but in doing so we develop a bond immature. What we miss we will miss him forever, and always depend on the other.
Meditation is a phase of transition and preparation is essential to all. Know yourself, know their own shortcomings. For not seeking compensation impossible, in order to avoid the inevitable failures.
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